{"id":183978,"date":"2024-05-05T12:44:22","date_gmt":"2024-05-05T16:44:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/setonshrine.org\/?p=183978"},"modified":"2024-05-05T13:09:53","modified_gmt":"2024-05-05T17:09:53","slug":"into-gods-light-shame-why-do-i-feel-unworthy-how-do-i-gain-self-respect","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/setonshrine.org\/es\/into-gods-light-shame-why-do-i-feel-unworthy-how-do-i-gain-self-respect\/","title":{"rendered":"A la luz de Dios | Verg\u00fcenza: \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 me siento indigno? \u00bfC\u00f3mo me respeto a m\u00ed mismo?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Click here to read the Introduction to Into God’s Light.<\/a><\/strong>
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Becky is seventeen and stunningly beautiful. She is tall, with long legs and shimmering, copper-colored hair that swings almost to her waist. She\u2019s also a cross country star, a straight A student, and liked by pretty much everyone, including the TikTok girls and the goths. In other words, as far as anyone can see, she\u2019s living her best life. The fact is, though, she\u2019s carrying around a major secret.<\/p>\n

Her mother is a drunk. Not \u201ca person with an alcohol use disorder,\u201d as she knows you are supposed to say these days, but a woman who is always drunk, day and night, around the clock. She wasn\u2019t always this way. Becky\u2019s father left right after she was born, and for many years, her mom was the bravest of the brave, a normal mom in every way. Then something snapped.<\/p>\n

For a while, Becky tries to ignore the ways her mom is changing, but there comes a point when she can\u2019t keep pretending not to see. What started out as \u201cI just need something to help me sleep\u201d has morphed into an addiction her mother can\u2019t control. When Becky gets home from school, her mom is passed out on the sofa. Sometimes she doesn\u2019t even make it to the sofa; sometimes she\u2019s just sprawled out on the floor in a puddle of vomit.<\/p>\n

When her mom gets fired for not showing up at work, Becky tries to confront her about the drinking. They scream terrible things at each other and then her mom flips out. She does something she\u2019s never done before: she takes a swing at Becky with a hard wooden hair brush. The brush catches Becky right across the eyebrow, splitting the skin. Blood flows into her eye. They\u2019re both yelling and sobbing and pulling each other\u2019s hair: total chaos.<\/p>\n

When the kids at school ask what happened to her face, Becky makes up a story about a car accident. How can she possibly admit that her own mother, the mother of \u201cperfect Becky,\u201d is a drunk? That their home life is sheer hell? Even though none of it is her fault, she knows how things work out there. If anyone finds out about her mom, Becky will look like a fake. She\u2019ll be judged.<\/p>\n

Shame is different than the guilt we feel when we\u2019ve morally wronged someone or violated our own ethical beliefs. Shame is public. It\u2019s about failing to meet a social standard, and judgment is usually swift and often brutal. The shame that washes over us confirms that we not only accept the judgment of the group but are willing to condemn ourselves even more harshly. Self-condemnation is the price we believe we must pay to be reinstated in the group.<\/p>\n

Thanks to social media, public shaming has become a regular feature of contemporary life. Someone says something deemed offensive. Someone else supports the wrong cause. A celebrity gains a few pounds. And suddenly the online outrage machine is pumping away in high gear. The results can be devastating.<\/p>\n

According to the American Psychological Association, \u201cBeing on the receiving end of a social snub causes a cascade of emotional and cognitive consequences. . . . Social [shaming] increases anger, anxiety, depression, jealousy and sadness.\u201d Since 35% of Gen Zers spend over four hours a day on social media, this group is particularly vulnerable to psychological distress stemming from online attacks.<\/p>\n

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Though Elizabeth Seton obviously never had to deal with online shaming, the rigid social standards of her era were in some ways tougher than they are today. Social class and gender roles were strictly defined in her traditional culture, even in the new democracy of America. No one felt constrained when it came to publicly chastising a relative or friend for their moral misbehavior\u2014or felt guilty about judging an entire family because of the failures of one of its members.<\/p>\n

Elizabeth is sixteen when her father\u2019s always-difficult second marriage begins to self-destruct. \u201cFamily disputes,\u201d is all she will say in her journal. Later, her sister Mary will write of this time that there were \u201cvery, very painful events\u201d that \u201cdrove\u201d the sisters \u201cinto situations that we must ever regret being attached to the life of any young person.\u201d While it is still unfolding, however, neither is willing to openly speak about the family dysfunction\u2014no doubt out of shame. Their stepmother Charlotte\u2019s relatives don\u2019t help: they broadcast their disapproval of the entire Bayley clan by cutting off all communication with the girls.<\/p>\n

A distant relative, a young man interested in learning about medicine from Elizabeth\u2019s father, comes to stay during this turbulent time. He notices other signs of dysfunction: it appears that Charlotte and even young Mary may be abusing laudanum, a powerful and highly addictive opiate that Richard Bayley keeps on hand to treat pain. Whatever the truth, the instability of the adults is clearly affecting the younger children in the home. Elizabeth writes in her journal that two of her adolescent half-brothers \u201chave already shown the unquestionable marks of unsteady dispositions.\u201d<\/p>\n

Elizabeth also notices the intense new friendship growing between her father and a divorced woman named Mary Fitch. Though at first she likes the woman, she comes to view this close, extra-marital relationship as yet another cause of the misery at home. And though on one hand, she admires her father\u2019s imperviousness to public opinion, on the other, she strives for impeccable respectability in her own life\u2014hoping, perhaps, to somehow mitigate the shameful behavior of the people she most loves.<\/p>\n

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Shame also dogs Christ’s disciples. Though all of them flee when Jesus is arrested in the Garden, it is Peter, the one who first understands that Jesus is the Messiah, the one Jesus has designated as the next leader of his little band, who publicly betrays his beloved rabbi and teacher. As Jesus is dragged off to be judged by Caiaphas the high priest, Peter follows at a distance, then finds a spot among the servants sitting in the courtyard. Though inside the house a stream of false witnesses are noisily coming forward to testify against his teacher and friend, Peter remains silent.<\/p>\n

Then a maid approaches him, saying \u201cYou, too, were with Jesus the Galilean.\u201d But he denies it in front of everyone, saying, \u201cI do not know what you are talking about!\u201d Two more times he is accused of being a follower of the condemned man, and two more times he lies to the crowd, cursing and swearing for added effect. But the moment the cock crows, Peter stops, aghast. Jesus predicted this. Jesus knew he would fail. Suffused with shame, he goes out of the courtyard and begins to weep as though his heart is broken.<\/p>\n

The good news is that there is a treasure concealed beneath the painful emotion of shame. Our public failures are so painful because they reveal what lies hidden behind our carefully crafted identity. It is only when that public persona gives way to something humbler and more real that we truly come into our own.<\/p>\n

If Peter had not been so thoroughly humbled by his cowardly refusal to acknowledge Jesus, he could never have assumed the mantle of leadership bequeathed to him. His self-protective ego would have gotten in the way. Not only does he stop worrying about his public reputation and personal safety, his public witness to Christ leads to his being crucified on his own cross in Nero\u2019s Rome.<\/p>\n

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Though Elizabeth\u2019s youthful response to the specter of public judgment was to live an irreproachably respectable life, she later discovers during her crisis of faith, when she enters the Catholic Church, that living with integrity is far more important. To become a Catholic is to automatically offend the society she belongs to. To follow this new path entails giving up her upper middle class Episcopalian identity and becoming one with the \u201cdirty, filthy, red-faced\u201d Irish Catholic immigrants, as her sister describes them. Later, when her daughter Catherine admits to being drawn to the \u201cfairy scenes\u201d of ballrooms filled with handsome men and women in beautiful gowns, Elizabeth urges her to \u201clook behind the curtain\u201d of these ballrooms and try to see what is really there\u2014the pretense and the posturing, the flattery and the hidden intentions, the carefully constructed social identities that at their core are so very fragile.<\/p>\n

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Beautiful, copper-haired Becky never can bring herself to put her identity at risk. Rather than seek the help she so desperately needs, she attempts to carry the burden of her mother\u2019s alcoholism alone. With no measure by which to judge her own worth but the approval of her peers, the pressure to maintain her image eventually becomes too much for her. In her senior year of high school, she undergoes a breakdown of her own. Thankfully, however, this psychological crisis forces her to do what she has not been able to do voluntarily: give up her attempt to look perfect.<\/p>\n

Becky has just taken the first step on the path to humility. And it is humility\u2014ideally, rooted in the reality that we are each children of God, with infinite dignity\u2014that lets us see and accept ourselves as we are, instead of as we think we should be, and takes the shock out of failure, and the self-condemnation out of public shaming.<\/p>\n

To learn more about this series of seven Easter reflections click here.<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

PAULA HUSTON is a National Endowment of the Arts Fellow and the author of two novels and eight books of spiritual nonfiction. Her essays and short stories have appeared in Best American Short Stories and in the annual Best Spiritual Writing anthology. Like Mother Seton, Huston is a convert to Catholicism. In 1999, she became a Camaldolese Benedictine Oblate and is a lay member of New Camaldoli Hermitage\u2019s community of monks in Big Sur, Calif. She\u2019s also a former president of the Chrysostom Society<\/a>, a national organization of literary Catholic writers.
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